{"id":37190,"date":"2020-04-09T07:00:13","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T23:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ttc.edu.sg\/english\/?p=37190"},"modified":"2021-06-13T08:43:31","modified_gmt":"2021-06-13T00:43:31","slug":"a-lament-about-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ttc.edu.sg\/english\/lent-2020\/a-lament-about-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"A Lament about Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243;][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Subheading &#8211; A Lament about Abuse&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.12&#8243;]<\/p>\n<h2><strong>A Lament about Abuse<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image _builder_version=&#8221;3.12&#8243; src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.ttc.edu.sg\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Lament-by-an-Abuse.png&#8221; \/][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.12&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>God, where are you?<br \/>\nAbused,\u00a0molested, and nearly raped.<\/p>\n<p>I was rejected,<br \/>\nBetrayed by men and friends.<\/p>\n<p>I attempted suicide,<br \/>\nIn the midst of pains by individuals and family.<\/p>\n<p>I experienced miscarriage twice,<br \/>\nI grieved beyond words.<\/p>\n<p>When I see a pregnant woman or a baby, tears flow;<br \/>\nHow I wish my babies are with me, but they are gone.<\/p>\n<p>Why can some women just conceive and give birth easily?<br \/>\nGod, where are you?<\/p>\n<p>I have been kind,<br \/>\nYet they ill-treat me,<br \/>\nMay they have their lesson as a consequence of their sins.<\/p>\n<p>Save me, Lord!<br \/>\nTurn away the evil people!<\/p>\n<p>The Lord delivered me from darkness,<br \/>\nHe lifted me from the bottom of the pit.<\/p>\n<p>Because of what he has done on the Cross,<br \/>\nI see his amazing work of love and grace.<\/p>\n<p>He caused me to live again,<br \/>\nHe healed me and made me strong.<\/p>\n<p>He restored me as a happy wife and mother,<br \/>\nMy heart sings with gratitude every day.<\/p>\n<p>God, where are you?<br \/>\nHis presence and peace are here with me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anonymous Student<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row_empty\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div> A Lament about Abuse <div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_1 et_pb_row_empty\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div> God, where are you? 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